Domestic violence against men is an all too real issue that doesn’t get as much attention as it should. There are an overwhelming number of domestic violence statistical data illustrating domestic violence against women. But, there is also plenty of evidence of men being subjected to domestic violence, as well. Some statistics suggest that out of every 100 reported domestic violence cases, about 40 of them are against men.

One of the biggest supporters against domestic violence against both men and women is Patti Austin, the 2007 Grammy award winning singer / songwriter. She was so moved by this “epidemic” that she started the Blue Movement in support of the victims of domestic violence. In fact, she was so moved by the story she saw on Oprah that she wrote a song called “By the Grace of God” as a way to speak out against domestic violence.

The month of October is designated as domestic violence month. As such, it is important for lawmakers and the general population to consider elevating the issue of domestic violence in support of a gender neutral movement. According to one report, there were an estimated 800,000 reported cases of domestic violence against men last year.

Domestic violence whether against men or women should not be tolerated. It’s somewhat understandable how women might get a wider audience of support, considering society views them as more vulnerable. And, of course, cases like the Annie Le murder at Yale or the Jaycee Dugard abduction capture the minds of the American populace. The perpetrators for the most part are men, but in the case of Dugard, the perpetrator was also his wife.

What many people fail to consider is that domestic violence against men, like women, happen in many different ways. Let’s look at the very visible case of Christopher Savoie. At face value, this may not appear to be domestic violence, but the man is now in jail because his wife abducted their children and took them to Japan. She was U.S. court had issued an arrest warrant for the mother!

According to a report by The Center for Disease Control and Prevention, they studied 11,000 men and women involved in domestic violence cases. What they found was that in 50% of the cases, the domestic violence involved both parties. And, an interesting fact, the woman was the first to strike. One other interesting revelation was that when the violence was one-sided, 70% of the time the perpetrator was the woman.

Another interesting statistic shows that domestic violence against men has more than doubled in the last 10 years. The actual numbers are probably even higher, because like in many domestic violence cases, they often are not reported. And, even when reported the victims and perpetrators often change their stories.

No matter how you look at the information, domestic violence against men or women is a bad thing. It’s bad for the parties involved, hurts communities and destroys families. Let’s all just hope that we find a way to educate everyone of this terrible travesty.

David Chan wrote an article about how a leader should position himself or herself to end domestic violence, you can find it on his blog at http://davidkchan.com.

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The Problem

O.k. Guys so you can’t figure out how to get a girl to like you in the way you had intended. Unfortunately your feminine side came screaming out and instead of being romantically involved, you are there with her watching lifetime doing your nails and letting her test her new “Hair-be-gone” on your legs. Hey don’t shoot the messanger you got yourself into this mess not me. So lets do a little house cleaning shall we? We’ll get you back on track no worries.

When a girl says she wants a nice, sensitive guy, don’t run out and get a “build-a-Bear” and sniffle during the chick flick you took her to. Technically speaking that may be what they want, it’s human nature and it sounds right, but when reality bares it’s head female instinct says she likes a guy who will take control and act like a man. Let’s look at what happens when….

What happens when.. you take a girl to an expensive dinner, buy her something on instinct and spoiling her at no expense? She thanks you for the lovely time and goes out with another guy. Dang!

What happens when.. you just can’t wait to call that beauty right after a great date cause you had such a great time (so you thought) and she’s coming off as awkward and rushing through the call just to get you off the phone. Am I right?

The Solution

Now Let’s change it up a bit for the sake of variety…

What Happens when.. you don’t call a girl and you’re habitually busy, and really could care less if you see her again or not? She’s calling you every few hours right?

What Happens when.. you go out for a quick brew and act like she’s your happy hour pal? She starts to feel an attraction because you are’nt being the “jump” “How High”? kinda guy. Do you get a feel for where I’m coming from?

Now Don’t go misunderstanding confidance to being a total jerk. To get a girl to like you and show some interest Don’t come off as shy or awkward it will turn her off. You will gain more ground if you lead the way without talking about it. Keep away from dull and lifeless and step up to fun and spontaneous.

Make her laugh, don’t give her too much info about yourself keep some mystery about you and let her wonder. Be interesting and please leave your game night talk at home. Show some direction with your goals and show you have a solid plan for your life, other than a 52″ Plasma and the “Boys” coming over on monday night to knock some down.

This is just some starting points for you to head in the right direction so let’s do a brief review and wrap up. Be a man, Keep Busy not too readily available, be obscure, have a plan, be calm, fun and confident (not arrogant) start off simple but purposeful and never, I repeat, never let her put some warm goop on your legs and tell you it isn’t going to hurt. Until the next time cowboy, peace and be well.

Manny F.Lives in Los Angeles is President of MyInfo4Profit an internet based company catering to a vass amount of valuable information from relationships to Internet Marketing. If you would like to continue your course and advance to a higher level of getting a girl to want you, visit A Man’s Guide To Success With Woman

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Easton, PA (PRWEB) June 17, 2004

Smoking cigars – it’s more than enjoyable – it’s relaxing. Buying cigars, well, that’s just humdrum, until now. Famous Smoke Shop, one of the nation’s leading catalogers and on-line retailers of premium cigars, has just launched CigarAuctioneer.com, where buying top-brand premium cigars is combined with the excitement of on-line auctions and good, clean, competitive fun.

CigarAuctioneer.com holds auctions on hard-to-find cigars as well as popular favorites. As a result, cigar aficionados are more likely to find that rare Padron Anniversary 1964 or Fuente-Fuente Opus-X on CigarAuctioneer.com than just about anywhere else. Cigar smokers will also recognize familiar brand names like Macanudo, Punch, Montecristo, Romeo y Julieta and others among the dozens of other cigar auctions posted daily. Auction buyers can even bid on cigar accessories, including humidors, lighters, cutters and cases. Players who have won several auctions during the week also have the option to combine all their winning auctions into one weekly shipment, which saves them from having to pay multiple shipping charges.

“We realize that we may lose money on some items from time-to-time, but we look at CigarAuctioneer.com as kind of a public service, a way of making shopping at our sites more fun. It’s also a way of saying ‘thank you’ to our thousands of loyal customers,” said Famous Smoke Shop president, Arthur Zaretsky.

CigarAuctioneer.com does not charge a registration fee to bid on cigar auctions, but site users must register before they can place their firstly bid. Customers already registered at Famous-Smoke.com can start bidding on cigars just by logging on to their account. Additionally, a recently “Auctions” tab now appears in the menu bar on the Famous-Smoke.com website linking visitors directly to CigarAuctioneer.com.

With the advent of CigarAuctioneer.com going live, on-line, cigar lovers around the world will be capable to get their favorite cigars as well as those hard-to-find particular editions and other rare cigars at the price they’re willing to pay 24 hours a day.

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Rolling cigars at Lovo Cigar Factory in Esteli, Nicaragua


Celebrating the 2009 World Champion New York Yankees with an Oliva Series V at Tobacco World. Plus, stay tuned for tomorrow’s Friday Night Pipes!

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