If you’re in a party with hundreds of women milling around, you’re going to feel overwhelmed. In a scenario like this, it’s time to seriously think of a plan to meet as many women as you can.
Let’s be realistic about one thing: you only have a few hours to spend in the party, and so do these women. By the end of the night, the crowd will thin out and you’re nowhere close to picking up girls. Remember the old cliché about having so little time and so many things to do? It applies in this scenario.
The obvious solution is to go at it with your wing men, or the group of guys you went to the party with. Think about it. You can open one set and they can open several more. You can all introduce everybody when you meet up later in the same party.
Two Strategies to With Your Buddies
1. Get a wing man with a similar vibe
You may be the life of the party, but if your partner doesn’t have the same vibe, you’re in trouble. Go with someone with a lot of energy, doesn’t lose his head and who can literally read your mind just by observing your subtle signals.
As a team, you’re likely to cover more ground and meet girls in groups. Two easygoing, fun-loving guys have more girl-magnet potential than one guy sitting alone in a bar.
2. Help Each Other
The truth is, you won’t always remember which face goes with which name. Your wing man can save you the trouble of asking for a girl’s name again by remembering her details for you. Also, when you’re about to go for a punch line or you’re prepping the conversation for your routine your friend can create an opening for you. Of course, you should do the same when it’s his turn.
Have fun meeting women with your buddies. For more information on anywhere using new tricks that can guarantee attention. You can also watch a preview video of what it can do for you,
I’m sure you are one of those people who have found it difficult to find a date. Well, it’s not as if you are not trying. It’s just maybe because you are not looking the right way. Yes, there is a right way on how to meet a good man. This will help ease whatever undesired results you have had that caused you trauma in finding the right one.
The first step you need to take on how to meet a good man is to know that men are really quite simple so don’t over think and don’t over do it. Approach him the right way. You can do this by having a friendly smile on your face, being confident and having that aura of excitement in you. This would most probably make you stand out and catch his attention. In no time, you will begin to see the results.
Your look is very important if you want to get noticed. Getting a man’s attention and having him impressed on your outlook would mean you have achieved this part of the process. It all starts with a simple look, just be yourself. It would more attractive on their end and perhaps, a little cute, too.
The best thing to know about how to meet a good man is to make sure you invest your time in events that would get you access to making this happen. Of course, how will you be able to meet someone if you do not mingle. It would depend on the type of image you would want to exude. It can be a professional image, an outdoorsy type, or a sweet simple image. Well, it’s all up to you.
The most important thing to know on is to never miss out on a chance to go on a date. It might potentially be it. Little chats would eventually lead to something else, so take your time. It might be awkward at first but really, how bad and hard could it be?
A woman’s main priority in finding a relationship is to find a guy and see to it that she gets to keep him. Kara Oh’s ebook, Men Made Easy can help make this happen. It can help make you understand men better to assure you that you can snag a good one in time.
Kara Oh has been a known expert on men. She is popular in both TV and radio and she is praised for her direct way of sharing her ideas. She has also experienced a life in the dating scene and happily overcome it as she now is a happy mother and a good wife to her family. is her gift to the public to help them have that happiness that they deserve.
Men Made Easy was based on personal experiences of the author and a study of various types of men that were also interviewed during the time the ebook was created. Once you get to read this, you will be enlightened as to the nature of men – what they do, how they think, what they really want.
The ebook actually is presented in a story form which makes it more understandable to read. All the information that you feel is necessary in learning about men is all the chapters of this ebook. Try to tell it to some men you know and see how they would react. You will slowly realize that men are predictable and you can use this to your advantage.
There are twelve secrets that will be revealed and will definitely make a big difference. Men Made Easy will surely make women’s lives easier by making an impact on your relationships between you and your partner. If you want to have a lasting relationship and find that person that you would want to keep, then this is surely an investment you definitely would want to make.
The Bible talks about an interesting usage for the Apple; it says that the Apple could refresh the one who is sick with love. The Noble Quran does not mention the Apple but it talks about the fruits in general. The Quran says: for those who merit Paradise, i.e. the inhabitants of Paradise, they have different kinds of fruit therein and, therein, they have whatever they ask or call for, they have whatever they desire or wish for.
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The Apple in the Bible
In the Bible King Solomon says in his Song:
I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys.
As a lily among brambles, so is my love among the young women.
As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love.
Sustain me with grape-cakes; refresh me with apples, for I am sick with love.
His left hand is under my head, and his right hand embraces me!
Upon reading this Biblical song, one may ask if the Bible is a book that teaches the religion or a book that teaches the private hot issues happening between men and women!
In the Noble Quran, the great Prophet King Solomon does not say such a song.
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Song of Solomon 2:1-6 in four different versions of the Bible:
New International Version
1 I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys.
2 Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the maidens.
3 Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest is my lover among the young men. I delight to sit in his shade, and his fruit is sweet to my taste.
4 He has taken me to the banquet hall, and his banner over me is love.
5 Strengthen me with raisins, refresh me with apples, for I am faint with love.
6 His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me.
American Standard Version
1 I am a rose of Sharon, A lily of the valleys.
2 As a lily among thorns, So is my love among the daughters.
3 As the apple-tree among the trees of the wood, So is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, And his fruit was sweet to my taste.
4 He brought me to the banqueting-house, And his banner over me was love.
5 Stay ye me with raisins, refresh me with apples; For I am sick from love.
6 His left hand is under my head, And his right hand doth embrace me.
King James Version
1I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys.
2As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters.
3As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
4He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love.
5Stay me with flagons, comfort me with apples: for I am sick of love.
6His left hand is under my head, and his right hand doth embrace me.
Young’s Literal Translation
1As a lily among the thorns,
2So [is] my friend among the daughters!
3As a citron among trees of the forest, So [is] my beloved among the sons, In his shade I delighted, and sat down, And his fruit [is] sweet to my palate.
4He hath brought me in unto a house of wine, And his banner over me [is] love,
5Sustain me with grape-cakes, Support me with citrons, for I [am] sick with love.
6His left hand [is] under my head, And his right doth embrace me.
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The Apple in the Quran
The Noble Quran does not mention the Apple but it talks about the fruits in general. The Quran says: for those who merit Paradise, they have different kinds of fruit therein and, therein, they have whatever they ask or call for, they have whatever they desire or wish for.
Verses 36: 55-58 talk about the fruits in the afterlife for those who merit Paradise i.e. the inhabitants of Paradise.
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The meaning of verse 36: 55
Indeed, this day which is the Day of Judgment, those who merit Paradise i.e. the inhabitants of Paradise are busy; they are delighting in pleasures; they are not tiring with anything wearisome, as there is no toil in Paradise; they are blissful and rejoicing in comfort.
The meaning of verse 36: 56
For those who merit Paradise, i.e. the inhabitants of Paradise, they and their wives are in pleasant shade; in other words, no sunlight affects them. They and their wives are on thrones reclining; reclining upon couches (the word couches in Arabic is pronounced as “Ara’ik”, which is the plural of ar?ka. Ar?ka is a bed inside a curtained canopy, or the bedding therein on thrones reclining)
The meaning of verse 36: 57
For those who merit Paradise, i.e. the inhabitants of Paradise, they have different kinds of fruit therein and, therein, they have whatever they ask or call for, they have whatever they desire or wish for.
The meaning of verse 36: 58
For those who merit Paradise, i.e. the inhabitants of Paradise, Allah, the Lord of the worlds will greet them with the word “Peace”; they are greeted with the greeting of peace! In other words, Allah, the Merciful Lord will say to them, ‘Peace be on you!’
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Verses 36: 55-58 of the Noble Quran in four different translations:
Verse 36: 55
QARIB: indeed, the companions of the garden are this day busy in their rejoicing.
SHAKIR: surely the dwellers of the garden shall on that day be in an occupation quite happy
PICKTHAL: lo! those who merit paradise this day are happily employed,
YUSUFALI: verily the companions of the garden shall that day have joy in all that they do;
Verse 36: 56
QARIB: together with their spouses, they shall recline on couches in the shade.
SHAKIR: they and their wives shall be in shades, reclining on raised couches
PICKTHAL: they and their wives, in pleasant shade, on thrones reclining;
YUSUFALI: they and their associates will be in groves of (cool) shade, reclining on thrones (of dignity);
Verse 36: 57
QARIB: they shall have fruits and all that they call for.
SHAKIR: they shall have fruits therein, and they shall have whatever they desire
PICKTHAL: theirs the fruit (of their good deeds) and theirs (all) that they ask;
YUSUFALI: (every) fruit (enjoyment) will be there for them; they shall have whatever they call for;
Verse 36: 58
QARIB: peace, a saying from the most merciful lord.
SHAKIR: peace: a word from a merciful lord
PICKTHAL: the word from a merciful lord (for them) is: peace!
YUSUFALI: “peace!” – a word (of salutation) from a lord most merciful!
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Back to my question unto the smart and interested reader:
Is the Quran quoted from the Bible?
Professor Dr. Ibrahim Khalil
? Prof. of Clinical and Chemical Pathology,
? Head of Clinical Microbiology and Infection Control Unit, Ain-Shams University. Cairo, Egypt,
? President of the Egyptian Society of Inventors,
? Member of the Egyptian union of Writers,
? Published some 60 Medical Articles,
? Supervisors for 79 PhD theses,
? Supervisors for 111 Master Degree theses,
? Co-Chief Editor of the Egyptian Journal of Lab. Medicine,
? Honorary President of SPIC-Egypt (The Society of Practitioners of Infection Control – Egypt)
”I added this section to the site mainly because I believe men get a pretty rough deal when it comes to grooming and I want to make sure you all get the best advice I can find. I constantly find that women pick on men for either being too rough or taking care of themselves too much, and it adds just as much pressure for a man to look good as it does for women when they look at skinny models in magazines and feel they need to diet, so if you are a woman reading this (which you shouldn’t be) then ease up on your man he has feelings too. OK so shaving is a pretty standard task that takes place normally before work when you really cant be arsed, you splash some warm water on your face, slap some foam on your face and rip yourself to shreds with a Bic and end up sore and blotchy, but do you care? no of course you don’t you only woke up half an hour ago. I think most men including me need to go back to school when it comes to shaving and learn to do it properly because if its done right the results are far better and a bit of after care goes a long way.
Preparation:
I strongly believe that you should shave at night before bed just as you would wash and brush your teeth, the reason is that your face is more relaxed than first thing in the morning, and your concentration is better also shaving at night means you wont need to do it in the morning which means more time in bed. Before you reach for the razor it is worth prepping the face before a shave, use a pre shave wash like king of shaves, this helps cleanse the skin and get rid of any dirt before a shave.
Applying Foam or Gel:
It’s time to go back to how your grandad did it, using a shave brush is a brilliant way to shave, the brush acts as a mild exfoliant and brings the hairs up ready for shaving. Use a good gel or foam such as loreal for men or nivea and apply a good amount using the brush, work it into the face in a circular motion to help raise the hairs. Once you have a good even coating your ready for shaving.
The Shave:
By far the best way to shave is to use a cutthroat style razor they give an exceptionally close shave, but unless you visit a specialist barber that can do this for you it’s not very practical for everyday use, so instead use a good quality single blade razor, these fancy razors that offer 4 blades are in my opinion a waste of time and money. When shaving always go with the hair growth and never against it as this is what causes razor burn, going with the growth means you wont get sore and if your razor is of good quality you will get a very close shave.
AfterCare:
After you have finished shaving the aftercare is just as important as the shave itself, a good quality non fragranced moisturiser should be used on the face and neck, never use alcohol based liquids such as aftershave this will just inflame the skin. Below is a selection of products available on amazon which I think work well when shaving, try out shaving this way and i’m sure you will find it much better.
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This is one of those eternal questions men ask themselves in the, usually, vain attempt to understand women. However, the answer is most of the time simple and plain to see. Women love in men a series of physical traits that are largely common and determined at genetic level and also certain features that vary from one person to another.
The physical side is rather simple since physical beauty is hard-coded in our genes. The tall, handsome man with a deep voice and a style that is practically oozing virility is guaranteed to be a hit with most women. His physical side is good. However, if he says something stupid every time he opens his trap, then it’s quite clear he would have to make do with women who either do not notice or do not care.
But almost any lack of lustre on the physical side can be made up by another skill. Just as the basic physical attraction is almost always guided by the same principles, environment shapes people into different patterns. Some women learn to appreciate men who know how to carry an intelligent conversation and have good manners. Others like men who can cook and are willing to wash the dishes. Others are not interested in anything but sex with as many interesting partners as they can get their hands on. And, finally, some like quiet, well-bred men who will provide for their financial and physical needs for the rest of their lives.
Quite frankly, women like in men about the same things men like in women and for the same reasons, although women do emphasize the personal touch and the social skills. However, they tend to go about it in a different manner, which men find confusing.
Would you qualify as the ideal man of a typical Filipino woman? If you think it is a bit old-fashioned, then you are proven wrong because there are modern-day females who still uphold their standards in men. In fact, most women in the Philippines are particular about the guys they would like to meet.
Below are ten qualities many look for in their dream guy:
1. God-fearing. Philippine women are grounded by their spiritual values. Of course, they do not look for a religious man but rather they look for a man who has faith in God. A godly man certainly has good moral values.
2. Responsible. She is not a dependent woman because she is hardworking and conscientious, but of course she wants her man to be manly and dependable. She needs someone whom she can entrust her entire being.
3. Gentleman. Who would not want a well-mannered, cultured and polite man? A Filipino girl wants her man to be that. It makes her feel like a queen of your heart.
4. Loyal and honest man. She does not want an unfaithful lover. She needs a one-woman man. A man who only wants her and her presence in his life is more than enough.
5. Romantic and caring. A Filipina woman loves romance. She is not a high-maintenance type of woman that would dry up your resources. Any small gestures that simply express your love and made her feel loved is already heavenly for her.
6. A good lover. She loves to snuggle and likes to be caressed. Being touchy does not mean she wants sex but by nature it is one of her love languages. She likes to be held closely and loves to hold you close in return. It secures her emotions.
7. A good friend. She does not need only a lover but also needs a friend. She wants someone who could also take time to listen to her. Some men do not have the patience to listen to a woman’s blues, but this is a need that a spouse should not neglect but meet instead.
8. Good sense of humor. A man does not need to be a clown, but at least he makes her laugh especially at times when she needs someone to make her smile. Everyone needs a good laugh from time to time. This will lighten her load especially if she is a full time wife.
9. Generous. In courtship, a man always sets his best foot forward and will consistently give her presents. But after that, when both are already married, the attitude of giving gifts is also gone. But a man who is basically generous will continue in giving even when the courtship stage came to pass.
10. Flexible. A typical Filipino woman needs her man to be flexible. She grew up in a culture where extended family is practiced. Families and relatives would tend to get in the way especially if you want to live independently and separately. She needs her partner to adjust gracefully and be patient with her own family as they will slowly work the matter out as a couple.
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Generally speaking men fashion and men style is not just about the clothes you wear and looking good in them. Of course you must handpick those clothes that you feel you are comfortable with and if they are stylish it’s even better. Have confidence is the best advice anyone could give you related to your outfit and style. Here are some basic tips about men fashion and men style:
Smell good
Don’t overdo it . some nice fragrance that you like and wear it no matter it’s a rainy day or a sunny one. You will get compliments most of the time .
Shoes
There are more styles of shoes. Classic and trendy(fashion). It doesn’t matter which one you choose but a men with style and a little knowledge of fashion will always know what to chose for every piece of clothing he has.
Hair
We didn’t talk that much in previous posts about hair but you must give it full attention. Hair styling is not for everybody. If you see at TV some star with a nice haircut maybe it doesn’t fit you well like him. Try determine your face shape(round, oval etc..) and then see some hairstyles you like for that kind of face type.
Color picking
Men fashion and men style is not just about the types of clothing is about colors too. Don’t be afraid to wear colors that you like. If you like blue wear it as often as you can , it will look good on you. Be sure to wear at least 2 colors anytime you don’t want to look that plain and simple.
Designer pants and jeans
Yes I know maybe you don’t have money for a designer pair of jeans but at lest try getting something similar. The back pockets should make your but look hot , and the jeans should be skinny down the leg.
Accessories
Men’s accessories are really in high demand. The amount of accessories available for men’s today is just ridiculous. a nice watch , a skinny tie, some cufflinks don’t be embarrassed to wear these pieces. They are top men style class.
Shave
Shave often. A clean face will look nicer without all that facial hair.
I think these are some basic tips about men style and men fashion . Try at least to follow them every time and you should be more than fine.
Although originally used chiefly by women, laser hair removal has become rapidly more popular among men, as fashion shifts towards demanding boyish smoothness from adult men as part of the modern style. Some men even go so far as to have their facial hair removed permanently, and many others consider back hair, leg hair, chest hair, underarm hair, or even public hair to be an unsightly blemish that is best gotten rid of as permanently as possible. Fortunately for men following this fashion trend, laser hair removal techniques have kept pace with their desires.
In fact, laser hair removal is particularly well-adapted to removing beard and moustache hairs. Since the laser treatment is generally most effect with coarse-textured, dark hairs, the hairs on the human male face are natural targets for this method of permanent epilation. Most men’s beards are darker than their hair color, and beard hair is typically thick and wiry – well-adapted to absorb large amounts of heat from aesthetic laser applications – and respond quickly and well to treatment.
Some men opt for a full removal of beard and moustache hair, giving them a permanently shaven appearance, while others choose more selective targeting, removing neck hair or taking the hair off the cheeks to leave a goatee or similar small beard. Other facial hair – particularly hairs growing between the eyebrows – can also be effectively removed using laser treatments.
Back and chest hair have also become unfashionable in recent years in some circles, and laser hair treatment can also be used to remove this hair. Underarm hair is a particularly common target for permanent removal among men, who are nearly as likely to undertake this procedure as women, and as in the case of the beard, the generally dark color of underarm hair makes it a prime subject for successful laser epilation. Leg hair is often thinned, or even completely removed, by some men who feel that smoothness is a more attractive feature for the modern male leg, also using laser techniques.
Finally, pubic hair is sometimes removed by men as well. The skin in this area is sensitive and laser removal of pubic hair tends to be quite painful because of this. However, it is a safer alternative to shaving, since shaving the pubic area can lead to nicks and cuts, which in turn can lead to infections. Pubic shaving is also much more difficult than facial shaving, so laser hair removal in this area will spare the necessity of engaging in this clumsy activity.
In short, permanent laser hair removal is no longer confined only to its original female audience. Men who wish to keep up with latest fashion trends have been increasingly adopting it as well as an effective alternative to shaving and depilatory creams.
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Domestic violence against men is an all too real issue that doesn’t get as much attention as it should. There are an overwhelming number of domestic violence statistical data illustrating domestic violence against women. But, there is also plenty of evidence of men being subjected to domestic violence, as well. Some statistics suggest that out of every 100 reported domestic violence cases, about 40 of them are against men.
One of the biggest supporters against domestic violence against both men and women is , the 2007 Grammy award winning singer / songwriter. She was so moved by this “epidemic” that she started the Blue Movement in support of the victims of domestic violence. In fact, she was so moved by the story she saw on Oprah that she wrote a song called “By the Grace of God” as a way to speak out against domestic violence.
The month of October is designated as domestic violence month. As such, it is important for lawmakers and the general population to consider elevating the issue of domestic violence in support of a gender neutral movement. According to one report, there were an estimated 800,000 reported cases of domestic violence against men last year.
Domestic violence whether against men or women should not be tolerated. It’s somewhat understandable how women might get a wider audience of support, considering society views them as more vulnerable. And, of course, cases like the Annie Le murder at Yale or the Jaycee Dugard abduction capture the minds of the American populace. The perpetrators for the most part are men, but in the case of Dugard, the perpetrator was also his wife.
What many people fail to consider is that domestic violence against men, like women, happen in many different ways. Let’s look at the very visible case of Christopher Savoie. At face value, this may not appear to be domestic violence, but the man is now in jail because his wife abducted their children and took them to Japan. She was U.S. court had issued an arrest warrant for the mother!
According to a report by The Center for Disease Control and Prevention, they studied 11,000 men and women involved in domestic violence cases. What they found was that in 50% of the cases, the domestic violence involved both parties. And, an interesting fact, the woman was the first to strike. One other interesting revelation was that when the violence was one-sided, 70% of the time the perpetrator was the woman.
Another interesting statistic shows that domestic violence against men has more than doubled in the last 10 years. The actual numbers are probably even higher, because like in many domestic violence cases, they often are not reported. And, even when reported the victims and perpetrators often change their stories.
No matter how you look at the information, domestic violence against men or women is a bad thing. It’s bad for the parties involved, hurts communities and destroys families. Let’s all just hope that we find a way to educate everyone of this terrible travesty.
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